How do we respond when we are ripped off, taken advantage of, or mistreated?


 How do we respond when we are ripped off, taken advantage of, or mistreated?

Answer: We love and preach the Gospel.

“But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. To one who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also, and from one who takes away your cloak do not withhold your tunic either. Give to everyone who begs from you, and from one who takes away your goods do not demand them back. And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.

“If you love those who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to get back the same amount. But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.”
 – Matthew 6:27-36

 “If you love those who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to get back the same amount. But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.
-- Luke 6:32-36


We belong to the Kingdom of God, and so our expressions are not weak. The stands that we make are strong. We do not fold over or retreat against evil, but we do love those who do evil and those who mistreat us. There is strength, stability, and integrity in this kind of love. Our God is not like the world, “he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.” He is patient and long-suffering. 
 
We were enemies of God. We took advantage of Him. We deserved His wrath. And if we are honest with ourselves, we still take advantage of God and are unworthy of His love. And yet, in Christ, we are extravagantly forgiven and loved. If this is the case, how ought we to love those who have wronged us. The scripture is very clear, that because we are forgiven, we too ought to forgive others who wrong us. I know if were in the other person’s shoes, I would want someone to present the Gospel to me and to continue to love me despite the wrong I have done. The worst of men can come to the loving arms of Christ and He will accept them. What they have done to us is so little compared to their need for the Gospel. And it is so little compared to what we have been forgiven of. This is a strength and a joy of the Gospel, we love and strive and plead with men on behalf of Christ.
 
The Bible warns us not to take this as weakness, for God will not let the guilty go unpunished. The scripture warns us that vengeance is the Lord’s, and not ours to take. But this compels us all the more to preach the Gospel. “Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. . . . Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God.”
 
And so instead of developing a hard and calloused heart toward the “sinner”, “the stranger”, and yes, our “enemy”, we love and we love strongly and we don’t stop loving.

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